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Comments posted on 2006-02-01

vrushavrusha posted 2 yrs ago

Though there is just one chromosome that causes the difference, however its weird how this society functions, when a man talks about being possessive, it’s considered ‘out of love’, but when a women talks in a possessive manner, people start relating her to a B****. I am not generalizing and I may be wrong, but here’s my honest take on this.

On a much lighter note, it was a good attempt. There was a good flow to the story and definitely vivid, but somehow I think it was predictable.. maybe I've watched too many Bollywood movies :)


M. MathewM. Mathew posted 2 yrs ago

I have lived in India, Europe, the Arabian Gulf and Canada. No matter where I stayed, I met Malayalees whose chee-chee attitude towards Kerala, actually gave them away. Morons!

But, when I say I'm from Kerala, it shocks most people. How odd!

Let's face it: is there anything more typically Malayalee than hiding one's real ethnic identity? Would a non-Keralite do that?

I find nothing more 'naaddenn' (Malayalam  for 'deshi') than denying one's roots - so self-defeating and unnecessary!

Unlike some of the more Aryan/whiter parts of India, Malayalees are known for being educated, multicultural and progressive. Unfortunately, a few loudmouths from (Madhya) Travancore have given Kerala a bad reputation. C'est dommage!


JustDoItJustDoIt posted 2 yrs ago

A well written artile about relationships.

I am a male and have had such issues.  Always wondered why we (myself and my wife) have such difficulties communicating with each other.  One interesting think I came across was on how we think or how our brains work.  I believe it all depends on our brain development.  The brain development in males and femails are different in general.  Therefore, what we crave from our partner is not understood (even when clearly expressed) by them.  Once we discovered this we have started to empathise with each other and have reduced the expectations from each other.  This understanding is helping us to work on our child a little differently.

I hope this information helps you if you are not already aware of it.

 


Seetha RaghavanSeetha Raghavan posted 2 yrs ago
Thanks to Dr Frank Morales we are getting more info on the conversion blighting our kids. Looking at the anarchy [savage serial mass murders by the islamist thugs and criminals] and poverty [close to two thirds being poor, jobless or homeless] that Hindus are being subjected to, for one more decade long after 1947,  the author rightly feels as I do, that social order [in terms of less cultural supremacist evangelism  - if not anything else] might be better if the parents take better control of their kids. He might feel there might be less plunder, less conversion. Probably true.

Not less anarchy, less criminality like present wide-spread rapes of our women by the barbaric muslims  and less warring interference by other rogue nations like chinese or pakkis or bangis perhaps.
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"A 15-year-old girl was gangraped by four youths including a college student,... two of the accused and handed them over to police, while the other two managed to flee.

All the accused are from Kochi in Kerala, according to Ramamurthy Nagar police.

The duo in police custody has been identified as Feroz (23), an alumnus of Oxford College in Bangalore, and Anis (24), a nursing college student.
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3 held for supplying arms to Naxals
Mangalore, Oct 14: The Anti-Rowdy Squad (ARS) here has arrested three persons on the charge of supplying weapons to Naxals in Andhra Pradesh, a top police official said.

The arrested were identified as B Venkatareddy, a native of Kodad village near Nalgonda in Andhra Pradesh, Mohammed Sayyad of Malur in Kolar district...

When interrogated, they revealed that they were proceeding towards Palakkad in Kerala to purchase weapons.

The accused had been supplying weapons to Naxal groups for the past four years, he said, adding that Reddy was involved in many cases in Andhra Pradesh and wanted by police there.

Published: Friday, October 14, 2005
Saturday October 15, 02:43 AM
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# Davangere police bust human trafficking DAVANGERE, DHNS: In a major breakthrough, Davangere police have busted an inter-State human trafficking racket and have arrested six persons Ashraf Mohmad and Amir Ali belonging to Vynadu and Kasaragodu districts in Kerala, Herald Jerome De'Souza from Udupi, Ibrahim from Mysore and Davangere resident Ashifa Banu have been arrested in this connection.
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Let me quote:
"Excessive tolerance of the Hindus and Hindu leaders even after partition has allowed excessive rights and privileges for the savage islamists who are committing all sorts of barbaric acts with no hindrance. Read on as to how a taxi driver of UP, became a rich and  notorious super terrorist like Jinah who was master minding beastly riots pre-1947, calling it "Direct Action".

Partition and congress rule have made evangelists and terrorists run wild.  (The only anti-secular ideology that is most dangerous is the  cultural supremacist one of the evangelists and  the islamists that claim superiority of their belief system over all other faiths/paths to God.  This clearly politicizes religion at every turn subverting every democratic and secular process all over the world - i.e. pure FASCISM and anti-secularism...."

Little does the author  know that most of the Jinah's savage riots were being played out right under the Raj administrative eyes. Yet nothing much was done about it and even so-called mahatma, the foolish publicist was party and culpable to these mass murders. Islamist
savage riots continue on to this day, latest being that in Mau.

Moplah pogrom took place under the Raj and now many other unprovoked
savage serial mass murders keep happening including the one for the filthy remarks of an American christian who foul mouthed Islam not in India but in distant USA and the murders happened not in any of the 60 odd islamist countries but in our Holy Land!

What a cruel irony!  Such is our secularism and democracy - no rule by the majority in a Hindu majority nation!!
"Jinah worked a savage frenzy out of (sheer) paranoia (wildly exaggerating the myth) that with some degree of remote possibility, Hindus like Moti Lal Nehru,  might  perhaps  in some likelihood  not be extremely respectful towards the savagely abusive behavior of the islamist extremists.. .  Hence, he engineered many barbaric pogroms and savage serial mass murders on totally innocent, unarmed Hindus entirely unprovoked - Moplah mass murders belong to another genre - Nao Kali pogrom  and other similar ones come to mind."

Such pogorms continue to this day, Godhra baby killings, Marad slaughter,  Mau riotous mass murders - being the most recent ones.   "In reality, there is no real Hindutvadi  to speak of.  You need at least a few, like the Brit-vadi Gordon Brown.  You want (muscled) Hindutvadis urgently (to give a robust response)!  Right away!!"

 Urgent steps are-
      * Defeat the congi thieves in the next election;
      * Boycott the business of slimy piglets of pakki pigs;
      * Skip cricket and bollywood movies;
      * Shun x'tian schools and colleges, to the extent possible;
      * Start schools for our children, if possible;
      * Advocate actively shipping of jihadi piglets left abandoned by the pakkis to PoK;
      * Spread the message of "suspending voting rights" of the piglets for 40 years;
      * Write books, movie scripts, cartoons to expose the obscene piglets; etc.
# LET US LEVERAGE OUR MARKET FO

ZafarZafar posted 2 yrs ago

Hi Vaj

 

[From this standpoint, sanctioned by the experience of shrewd old nations, the foreign races in Hindusthan must either adopt the Hindu culture and language]

[My take:]

[YOUR take, right? Not worth used toilet paper.]

 

So what is YOUR take?  You’ve avoided stating it, again.  Do you think nobody noticed?

 

[must entertain no idea but those of the glorification of the Hindu race and culture, i.e. of the Hindu nation, and must lose their separate existence to merge in the Hindu race]

[My take: become Hindus.]

[I take all of that mean one simple thing: Golwalkar's warning against the consequences of following a German model.]

 

How did you get that from ‘merge in the Hindu race’?  Maybe you have been confused, and that is why you neglected to provide your own understanding of Golwalkar’s quotes.  WHERE did he warn of the 'consequences'?  Where did he even speicifcally  MENTION the 'consequences' in a disapproving manner?  'Highest' is approving, not disapproving, btw.  Anyway, since you've clearly forgotten to respond, for your convenience:

 

[or may stay in the country, wholly subordinated to the Hindu Nation, claiming nothing, deserving no privileges, far less any preferential treatment -- not even citizen's rights. (We, p.47-48/p.55-56)]]

My take: be forever second class and subordinate, not even having citizen’s rights.

 

What do you think ‘not even citizen’s rights’ mean, Vajbhai?

 

(Please note, the question of the majority having the moral authority to take away citizen’s rights from fellow Indians just because they are DIFFERENT doesn’t even occur to Golwalkar.  And apparently not to you.  But Vaj – for someone who speaks up – rightly – when you see a situation where non-Muslims are treated as Dhimmis in Muslim majority countries (Hindu in Bangladesh, for eg), you are strangely silent on the MORALITY of Golwalkar’s prescriptions.  Which seem, btw, like the worst Hindutvawadi caricature of ‘semitik’ religiosity in saffron garb.)

 

[To keep up the purity of the Race and its culture, Germany shocked the world by her purging the country of the Semitic races -- the Jews.  Race pride at its highest has been manifested here.]

 

My take: ‘Highest’ means’ well done Germany!’

What do you think it means, Vajbhai?

 

[Germany has also shown how well-nigh impossible it is for Races and cultures, having differences going to the root, to be assimilated into one united whole, a good lesson for us in Hindusthan to learn and profit by. (We, p.35/p.43)]

My take: Hindus should act like Germans did with the Jews.

 

What do you think ‘a good lesson for us in Hindusthan to learn and profit by’ means, Vajbhai?  Especially after that laudatory ‘race pride at its highest’ as opposed to ‘lowest’?

 

To me it looks a lot like an agenda to ‘obliterate all national identities other than those recognized by the RSS as The Hindu’.  At least that’s what the content of his writing says, despite the RSS ‘bravely’ withdrawing the book from circulation after Independence.

 

But how do you ‘interpret’ it Vajbhai?  What do you think it means?

 

 [‘Foreign races’ in Britain are asked to adopt Britishness and learn English.  Last heard, nobody is calling it cultural genocide.]

 

Who are the ‘foreign races’ in Britain?

Immigrants?

The British-born children of Immigrants?

All non-English speaking people (eg Welsh, Scots Gaelic)?

 

Why are you backing away from this statement you made implying that it was applicable to the Indian situation?  Had second thoughts?

 

[this whole point about "foreign races" is moot, because the RSS repeatedly says that Indian Muslims are not descendants of Indian Hindus and not the progeny of Arabs.]

 

So who was Golwalkar talking about then?

 

[You keep bringing up Hadith when confronted with evidence of the Parivar’s ideological fascism and racism.]

[Well, I "bring them up" no matter what you say, Secualruddin. Because nothing, and nothing illustrates better than Islam's resolve to obliterate all religious identities other than the Muslim as the Hadith does.]

 

But what does this have to do with the Parivar’s ideological racism and fascism?  What is the connection?  You know, by this time, that I have no interest in ‘defending’ Hadith or Koran, as such.  I am not going to get sidetracked by your random statements and arguments about them.  Why do you always try to change the subject whenever evidence of the Parivar’s ideological racism and fascism is discussed?  Do you really believe that people don’t notice that you run away from these discussion?

 

[Do you sincerely believe that the ONLY reason I would be opposed to the Parivar’s racist and fascist subtext is the urge to promote Islam?]

[Of course! Islam is intrniscally racist and fascist, and its promotes the ideology of  'Taqiya', simply put,  "opportunism".]

 

EVEN if we hypothetically grant your position on Islam, why do you believe that the ONLY reason I would therefore oppose racism and fascism is to promote Islam?

 

Again, there is no logic to your case.  Only your narrow minded assumption that any questioning of the Parivar’s racism and fascism can ONLY be motivated by the urge to make India Darul Islam.  On reflection, doesn’t that seem a bit nutty to you?

 

[ If you are certain in your knowledge that those who claim to be Hindus' representatives are NOT]

 

A neutral measure – the Lok Sabha election results – tell us the communal Hindutva ideologies are not supported by India’s Hindu majority electorate.  The election results aren’t something I just made up.

 

[why waste your breath?]

 

You keep making ambit claims here to inflate your own views as ‘representative’ of Hindus.  If you didn’t do that, I certainly wouldn’t be contesting the point.

 

[But if Muslim couples register their marriages under the Special Marriages Act (as my parents – both born into Muslim families - did, many years after getting married by nikah btw) then MPL does NOT apply to that family wrt divorce or inheritance.]

[Did your parents divorece under SMA?]

 

Not yet, thank you for asking.

 

But my uncle, who similarly registered his marriage under SMA, passed away and inheritance did not follow MPL but SMA. (He was survived by his wife and daughter and three brothers).  Under MPL his estate would have largely been divided up between his brothers, with a smaller share going to his wife and daughter.  What actually happened was that it all went to my Aunt, as he intended.

 

[If the point of "opting" for SMA is to be governed by its divorce and in inheritance provisions, then the real test of the "option" of SMA is when its applicability is challenged in courts by a triple-talaaqed Muslim wife. Cite Case Law showing us that the court overruled 3-talaaq and granted relief to the petitioner]

 

The point of Muslims getting married under SMA is that triple talaaq is not an option.  If YOU think that Muslim men who get married using SMA then turn around and try to use triple talaaq to divorce their wives (and are supported by Shahabuddin?), then YOU please provide some case HISTORIES (with references).  Otherwise you are just blowing a lot of hot air with no substance. (What a surprise!)  Or rather squealing ‘noooooo, don’t puncture my illusions, my prejudice against Muslims is all I have to live for’. 

 

Honestly, Vaj.  Shouldn’t there be more to your life than this self destructive wallowing in bigotry?

 

Warm Regards


nita_jrnita_jr posted 2 yrs ago
Oh boy, that was a touching story...

smilezsmilez posted 2 yrs ago
people write coz the paper wod never comment on whatever u wrote or never interrupt u when ur trying to convey something...it wod never argue or contradict what u say.. and people like me write when our mouths start aching after continusly blabbering n people have turned they ears away from us

smilezsmilez posted 2 yrs ago
not always true dude......i am waiting for the day my bro would get a decent gal fren and we could u knw run a kinda filmy chaakarr around my folks.....n its funny though my folks   treat my bro(who is 2 yrs ynger) as the elder one where as i am treated like the kid bro(though i am technically a married daughter )..fuuny huhhh...i   knw

smilezsmilez posted 2 yrs ago
thanks brij. and about the english part..i was 19 when the intrenet/mobile boom hit india. From the day i first chatted with a friend on yahoo to till today i have always used these shortcust. first because the internet was so costly and u had to type real fast , then SMS's where we had long conversations with character limits n the main reason, it was not approved by my family and teachers... so i started writing this way more for the teenage rebel reason than anything else   and now have got soo used to it that its hard to change. Anyways will try my best to stick to regular spellings and not short cuts. you should be proud of me already when you see this message..

Ravi G. KrishnanRavi G. Krishnan posted 2 yrs ago
Thanks  Seshadri

It is more about coping with changes  than nostalgia
Ravi g krishnan





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